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"My aim is to put down on paper what I see and what I feel in the best and simplest way."
Ernest Hemmingway
My truth...
I believe I have spent my life hiding and then being saddened by not being seen. I set myself up for feeling small and then blame you. However, recently, I have been given the courage to live more honestly. I have a new openness to show you my whole self; my personality, my sense of humor, and most importantly, my heart. It is a willingness to do that that brought me to start Naked Random Thoughts...
I have no idea what I am doing and no clue whether you will find anything I have to say interesting, insightful or helpful. I do hope that at least one person finds something comforting in my words but the point of this whole deal is for me to be honest in how I am living. To be accountable to myself and in turn, you.
This isn't completely altruistic - I also want to heal. I want to stop being afraid to own my life. My most sincere hope is that the life that I have lived and what I have learned from that life just might make a difference to someone who is suffering similarly.
May we each learn from each other and may kindness, love and authenticity prevail.
Divorce & Separation
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Orbiting...
It is a new dating term. There are like a million of them. I have decided I am going dedicate a blog post to each. Orbiting got first billing because,...
Orbiting...
It is a new dating term. There are like a million of them. I have decided I am going dedicate a blog post to each. Orbiting got first billing because,...
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Improving Your Divorce Experience: The Best Way...
Going through a divorce can take a toll on your self-esteem. A divorce coach works with you to rebuild your confidence and sense of self-worth. They encourage you to recognize...
Improving Your Divorce Experience: The Best Way...
Going through a divorce can take a toll on your self-esteem. A divorce coach works with you to rebuild your confidence and sense of self-worth. They encourage you to recognize...
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Understanding the Gender Dynamics of Retaliatio...
Divorce is a challenging and emotionally charged process that often involves complex dynamics between spouses. One notable aspect of divorce is the tendency for women to exhibit more retaliatory behaviors...
Understanding the Gender Dynamics of Retaliatio...
Divorce is a challenging and emotionally charged process that often involves complex dynamics between spouses. One notable aspect of divorce is the tendency for women to exhibit more retaliatory behaviors...
Love & Romance
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Gut Level No's...
I am not sure about you, but in my life, I have three different beings that exist within me: my head, my heart and my gut. And while they all...
Gut Level No's...
I am not sure about you, but in my life, I have three different beings that exist within me: my head, my heart and my gut. And while they all...
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Human Shaped Drugs...
Maybe this doesn’t happen for you. Maybe you don’t become hooked on a feeling, a person, a thing, a pattern of behavior. I do. Again...still. I think people might have...
Human Shaped Drugs...
Maybe this doesn’t happen for you. Maybe you don’t become hooked on a feeling, a person, a thing, a pattern of behavior. I do. Again...still. I think people might have...
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Broken People...
I read a quote the other day that said, “Broken women know how to love but not who to love and broken men know who to love just not how...
Broken People...
I read a quote the other day that said, “Broken women know how to love but not who to love and broken men know who to love just not how...
Sex & Passion
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Willed Anxiety?
I never knew. How much my will was a cause and undercurrent for anxiety. Believing that I had power, that I never really did. Believing that I could change things...
Willed Anxiety?
I never knew. How much my will was a cause and undercurrent for anxiety. Believing that I had power, that I never really did. Believing that I could change things...
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The Hot Lover - Control.
God help me remember my desire to control as a reminder to experience each moment, completely new and fresh... Oh if it were that easy... I control to feel safe....
The Hot Lover - Control.
God help me remember my desire to control as a reminder to experience each moment, completely new and fresh... Oh if it were that easy... I control to feel safe....
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Inner Strength...
I close my eyes when I work out. The harder it gets, the more likely I am to close my eyes and go within. Maybe lots of people do this...but...
Inner Strength...
I close my eyes when I work out. The harder it gets, the more likely I am to close my eyes and go within. Maybe lots of people do this...but...
Mothering
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Prioritizing Children's Emotional Needs During ...
Divorce is a complex and emotionally challenging process, not only for the couplesinvolved, but also for their children. It is crucial to put children's emotional needs ahead of the divorce...
Prioritizing Children's Emotional Needs During ...
Divorce is a complex and emotionally challenging process, not only for the couplesinvolved, but also for their children. It is crucial to put children's emotional needs ahead of the divorce...
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Acceptance Isn't Always a Bitter Pill...
Lately I have been accepting things, people, life as they are. It isn’t easy because I want to change them up, make them into something else entirely. But that hasn’t...
Acceptance Isn't Always a Bitter Pill...
Lately I have been accepting things, people, life as they are. It isn’t easy because I want to change them up, make them into something else entirely. But that hasn’t...
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Folding In...
This how life feels to me. I am always just folding in new things and with the addition of those new things, some old things either seem to dissipate or...
Folding In...
This how life feels to me. I am always just folding in new things and with the addition of those new things, some old things either seem to dissipate or...