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"My aim is to put down on paper what I see and what I feel in the best and simplest way."
Ernest Hemmingway
My truth...
I believe I have spent my life hiding and then being saddened by not being seen. I set myself up for feeling small and then blame you. However, recently, I have been given the courage to live more honestly. I have a new openness to show you my whole self; my personality, my sense of humor, and most importantly, my heart. It is a willingness to do that that brought me to start Naked Random Thoughts...
I have no idea what I am doing and no clue whether you will find anything I have to say interesting, insightful or helpful. I do hope that at least one person finds something comforting in my words but the point of this whole deal is for me to be honest in how I am living. To be accountable to myself and in turn, you.
This isn't completely altruistic - I also want to heal. I want to stop being afraid to own my life. My most sincere hope is that the life that I have lived and what I have learned from that life just might make a difference to someone who is suffering similarly.
May we each learn from each other and may kindness, love and authenticity prevail.
Divorce & Separation
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The Vital Role of Co-parenting Classes in Prese...
Divorce is an emotionally challenging experience, not only for the couple involvedbut also for their children. While the end of a marriage may be unavoidable, itsimpact on the children can...
The Vital Role of Co-parenting Classes in Prese...
Divorce is an emotionally challenging experience, not only for the couple involvedbut also for their children. While the end of a marriage may be unavoidable, itsimpact on the children can...
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Be Still and Know...
Ok, what if I don’t want to? Like either one. I don’t want to be still and I am not all that sure that I want to know. And yet,...
Be Still and Know...
Ok, what if I don’t want to? Like either one. I don’t want to be still and I am not all that sure that I want to know. And yet,...
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Navigating Divorce: The Crucial Role of a Finan...
Divorce is a complex and emotionally challenging process that often involvessignificant financial implications. As couples navigate the intricacies of dividingassets, managing debts, and planning for the future, the expertise of...
Navigating Divorce: The Crucial Role of a Finan...
Divorce is a complex and emotionally challenging process that often involvessignificant financial implications. As couples navigate the intricacies of dividingassets, managing debts, and planning for the future, the expertise of...
Love & Romance
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Loving...
I have grossly misidentified love in my life. I have called many things that were not love, love. Lust, need, want, dependency. And perhaps I wasn’t wrong, perhaps lust, need,...
Loving...
I have grossly misidentified love in my life. I have called many things that were not love, love. Lust, need, want, dependency. And perhaps I wasn’t wrong, perhaps lust, need,...
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Schrödinger's Relationship...
Once you begin a relationship you unknowing enter the Schrödinger box. The relationship is alive in the proverbial box and the relationship is dead inside the box. And what is...
Schrödinger's Relationship...
Once you begin a relationship you unknowing enter the Schrödinger box. The relationship is alive in the proverbial box and the relationship is dead inside the box. And what is...
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An Afternoon with Meg...
I spent the afternoon yesterday with Meg. Now anyone who has ever met Meg knows that any time spent with her is interesting, thought provoking and FUN! I have known...
An Afternoon with Meg...
I spent the afternoon yesterday with Meg. Now anyone who has ever met Meg knows that any time spent with her is interesting, thought provoking and FUN! I have known...
Sex & Passion
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Willed Anxiety?
I never knew. How much my will was a cause and undercurrent for anxiety. Believing that I had power, that I never really did. Believing that I could change things...
Willed Anxiety?
I never knew. How much my will was a cause and undercurrent for anxiety. Believing that I had power, that I never really did. Believing that I could change things...
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The Hot Lover - Control.
God help me remember my desire to control as a reminder to experience each moment, completely new and fresh... Oh if it were that easy... I control to feel safe....
The Hot Lover - Control.
God help me remember my desire to control as a reminder to experience each moment, completely new and fresh... Oh if it were that easy... I control to feel safe....
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Inner Strength...
I close my eyes when I work out. The harder it gets, the more likely I am to close my eyes and go within. Maybe lots of people do this...but...
Inner Strength...
I close my eyes when I work out. The harder it gets, the more likely I am to close my eyes and go within. Maybe lots of people do this...but...
Mothering
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Acceptance Isn't Always a Bitter Pill...
Lately I have been accepting things, people, life as they are. It isn’t easy because I want to change them up, make them into something else entirely. But that hasn’t...
Acceptance Isn't Always a Bitter Pill...
Lately I have been accepting things, people, life as they are. It isn’t easy because I want to change them up, make them into something else entirely. But that hasn’t...
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Folding In...
This how life feels to me. I am always just folding in new things and with the addition of those new things, some old things either seem to dissipate or...
Folding In...
This how life feels to me. I am always just folding in new things and with the addition of those new things, some old things either seem to dissipate or...
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Air Supply...
I remember being ten in my room singing “Every Woman in the World," belting it out really. Standing in front of the mirror, looking at myself and seeing this woman...
Air Supply...
I remember being ten in my room singing “Every Woman in the World," belting it out really. Standing in front of the mirror, looking at myself and seeing this woman...
